What to Expect When Moving In Together

Moving in with your partner is a thrilling step in any relationship and can be where the real adventure begins! From merging households to understanding legal bits and bobs, there’s plenty to think about—but don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here’s what to expect as you take this exciting step.

Combining Two Homes into One

One of the first challenges? You’ll probably have two of almost everything—two kettles, two sofas, and at least three toasters (because why not?). Instead of playing an impromptu game of 'furniture Tetris,' take the time to decide together what to keep, sell, donate, or store. A self-storage unit can be a great way to hold onto sentimental items without cluttering up your new love nest.

Sorting Out Shared Finances

Talking about money isn’t the most romantic thing, but it’s definitely necessary. Will you split bills 50/50? Keep your own accounts? Or go all in and create a shared ‘future together’ fund? Whatever you decide, setting expectations early can prevent awkward conversations later.

Adapting to Shared Space

Sharing your home means adjusting to each other’s quirks—like discovering one of you leaves cupboard doors open, while the other can’t function without a morning coffee ritual. The key? Communication and a little bit of compromise. Maybe even a ‘no leaving socks in the living room’ pact.

Understanding Legal Rights

Here’s something a lot of couples don’t realise: in the UK, there’s no such thing as ‘common law marriage.’ So even if you’ve been together for ages, the law won’t automatically treat you like a married couple. A cohabitation agreement can help spell out what happens if you ever part ways (not that we’re suggesting anything, but it’s always good to be prepared!).

Planning for the Future

Moving in together is a big deal, so why not use this time to dream a little? Whether it’s planning a wedding, saving for a home, or just setting some fun traditions (Sunday brunch in pyjamas, anyone?), this is the start of something special.